Pancake Party

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Today we celebrate pancakes. My husband would affirm that if I had my way I would want to celebrate pancakes EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. But alas, today is the day we officially celebrate the simple yet delicious breakfast treat which gives us the opportunity to follow Kate Spade’s timeless directive to “Eat cake for breakfast.”

Pancakes have been a favorite part of the diet of many cultures for hundreds of years. in fact, researchers have found pancakes in the stomach of Otzi the Iceman’s human remains dating back 5,300 years! (Proving they’re so easy to make a cave man could do it…You had to know that was coming…) In ancient Roman and Greek societies, writings show pancakes were made from wheat flour, olive oil, honey and curdled milk. Pancakes have been written about in the poetry of the ancient Greeks and have been mentioned in some of the works of Shakespeare. Through the years the simple pancake has taken on many forms of specialization when spices, fruits and even libations have been added to ‘elevate’ them.

The fact is, any breakfast feels more special when there’s a pancake griddle heating these sweet temptations. My husband Jodie often says the best things you can make are just a combination of simple ingredients combined with care, and I think he couldn’t be more right. So today, in celebration of National Pancake Day, let’s put aside the box mix and take just a couple seconds longer to mix up some batter from scratch. Mixing it yourself gives you the chance to drop some love inside, and Love- after all- makes EVERYTHING better.

Here’s a simple pancake recipe in case you don’t already have a favorite! Note that you can adjust the recipe depending on how fluffy you like yours to be. You can also add chocolate, fruit, sugars, etc. to make them your own. Note that the dry ingredients can be mixed ahead of time and stored just like your favorite boxed mix, and the full batter is good for even a few days in the refrigerator. I’d love to hear your favorite way to enjoy pancakes.

Pass the butter, y’all. You CAN have your [pan]cake and eat it too!

Recipe:

  • 1 cup All Purpose Flour

  • 2 teaspoons Baking Powder

  • 1/4 teaspoon Salt

  • 1 tablespoon Sugar (if you like them sweet)

  • 2 eggs

  • 1 1/2 to 2 cups of Milk

  • Butter (you may prefer to have some melted butter ready for cooking and some unmelted butter ready for the pancakes as they come off the griddle.)

Preparation:

  1. Heat a griddle or large skillet over medium-low heat. In a bowl, mix together dry ingredients. Beat eggs into 1 1/2 cups milk, then stir in 2 tablespoons melted cooled butter, if using it. Gently stir this mixture into dry ingredients, mixing only enough to moisten flour; don't worry about a few lumps. If batter seems thick, add a little more milk.

  2. Place a teaspoon or 2 of butter or oil on griddle or skillet. When butter foam subsides or oil shimmers, ladle batter onto griddle or skillet, making pancakes of any size you like. Adjust heat as necessary; usually, first batch will require higher heat than subsequent batches. Flip pancakes after bubbles rise to surface and bottoms brown, after 2 to 4 minutes.

  3. Cook until second side is lightly browned. Serve, or hold on an ovenproof plate in a 200-degree oven for up to 15 minutes.

Dum Spiro Spero

The motto of South Carolina Dum Spiro Spero is translated to mean “While I breathe I hope.”

It’s no secret to anyone who has known me for any longer than a millisecond that I am an intensely loyal South Carolina Gamecock fan. Always have been. Always will be. If you know anything about Gamecock sports through the years (especially Football) you know that’s not always the easiest team to remain hopeful for. Yet I do. And I’m not the only one.

This season for South Carolina fans thoughts of hope means something more than looking for a good outcome at a sporting event. This year, “hope” is an encouragement embodied by the organization known as Hilinski’s Hope which provides support and resources aimed at destigmatizing mental illness. Funding and practical tools are made available by Hilinski’s Hope to schools with student athletes to implement change necessary to bring parity to mental health treatment so it is in line with treatment for all other illnesses and injuries student athletes face.

You see, our new quarterback Ryan Hilinski lost his brother Tyler Hilinski to suicide while Tyler was the quarterback at Washington State University. You may remember hearing about it in the news. You can read more about the Hilinski family’s story here. Ryan’s family founded “Hilinski’s Hope” in Tyler’s honor; a way to keep his memory alive.

So why write about this in my blog today?

Well, the Gamecocks had a tough game on Saturday in Missouri- one of those games where nothing (and I do mean NOTHING) went our way. Our Freshman quarterback in his first road start struggled to put it mildly. After showing so much poise and promise the previous two weeks, Ryan’s performance Saturday reminded us he is actually human. So are his teammates. And so are his coaches.

Social Media erupted. Some lamented a supposed curse on Gamecock sports. Some called for the coaching staff’s seat to begin heating; or rather burning. Some gave up hope of ever winning again. And then a headline Sunday morning in Columbia’s newspaper ‘The State’ shook us all. It read, “Hilinski Hope Sinks.”

Was it a hard game to watch? Yes. But it’s a GAME. Hilinski’s Hope and the student athletes it aims to help are real people, and their hope didn’t sink; regardless of what may or may not happen on a football field, basketball court, baseball diamond, volleyball court, soccer field, track, pool…you get my point. The importance of their physical and mental health are more important than ever when all the chips are down at times like these. ‘Hope” is more important than ever.

In this day and age I don’t know how a headline so tone deaf makes it onto the front page of a newspaper. The State Newspaper quickly issued an apology, and I hope in addition to the apology the staff internally will work to be sure checks and balances exist to keep something like this from ever happening again.

Dum Spiro Spero. While I breathe I hope.

So let’s take this awful circumstance and show even in a small way hope IS still alive. Maybe the public will take greater notice of what Hilinski’s Hope is trying to do in response to Sunday’s unnecessary headline. We all have a part to play- and again I remind you: This is bigger than any sport. It’s literally life or death for some folks.

My challenge to you? Gamecock fan, fan of another team, or even hater in general of sports: Let’s turn this negative into a positive.

I will personally match your donation to Hilinski’s Hope up to $250. The day will come when LetterJess will have more resources to donate more. But together, WE can do more. If you read this and want to be part of building hope, use the link to donate. All you have to do is send me an email (hello@LetterJess.com) with proof of your donation, and I’ll make a matching donation. There’s no amount too small to participate. Tyler Hilinski wore #3 and Ryan wears #3 in his brother’s memory. Even a $3 donation will help.

The link to donate to Hilinski’s Hope is here. I can’t wait to see what we can do together!

Tailgating Tunes

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Football season is in full swing, and I couldn’t be more excited about it. One of the best parts of football season for me is the time I spend with family and friends tailgating before (and after) the games. If you’re lucky enough to make friends with the people you tailgate near through the years, the first few games can seem like family reunions. Excitement abounds for those few magical game days each year, and it’s my belief that a must-have for any football Saturday or Sunday is the perfect tailgating playlist. Your playlist should be a mix of musical genres and contain tunes almost anyone can recognize. Bonus points if you get a few friends to sing along.

I’m pleased to share my 2019 Tailgating Tunes playlist with you. 68 songs for 4 hours and 40 minutes of music means you can tailgate quite awhile and never hear the same song twice. I hope you enjoy! I’d love to hear your favorite fall tailgating songs. Did I leave out any classics?

Click here for the LetterJess “Tailgating Tunes” on Spotify.

Click here for a list of all the songs in case you don’t utilize Spotify.

(note there are a couple of songs with explicit lyrics or tone)

Glamorous Photo Shoot Birthday Party

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I’m not sure anyone loves a theme party more than I do. Not kidding. Celebrating a birthday? Love it. Does it honor someone special? Bonus points. Do you get to dress up? Call me. (Seriously- Call me.) The only thing close to generating as much excitement from me about being invited to a glamorous party (photoshoot included) is being asked to create an invitation for one.

When Winston-Salem photographer Jodie Brim and I spoke about her vision for a party to celebrate her mother’s latest milestone birthday, her direction was clear: “Mom is EXTRA and so are her friends!” Jodie wanted the invitation to let her mother’s friends know this was meant to be a glamorous party befitting its honoree’s sense of style and love of all things that shine. I enjoyed every moment of working on this invitation for Jodie and her mother. We decided on a touch of antiqued gold foiling for the card and custom envelope liners that had a gold marble effect. We finished the invitation off with addresses done in calligraphy with gold ink.

I hope each of the ladies who received these invitations was delighted when she opened her mailbox that day, and the guest of honor was celebrated with the level of glam she deserved. Jodie was kind enough to send a few pictures of the birthday girl and her friends from the day’s photoshoot. It looks like the day was a special one. I was thrilled to have even the smallest part of it.